When blonde Jamie Perskins with blue eyes married the dark-skinned model Nikki Thot, their love story seemed like a modern fairy tale.
Together, they had two exceptionally beautiful children â but a few years ago, everything came crashing downâŠ
How did Jamie and Nikki met
In 2009, the couple Nikki and Jamie met for the first time on an old-school social media site â MySpace. Remember that one?
At the time, 19-year-old Nikki Thot was already making waves as a popular South Sudanese-Australian model based in New York, signed with one of the biggest agencies in the world, IMG. Jamie, 25 at the time, was a cinematographer stepping into the world of music video production.
The following year, in March, they got married. In January 2016, they welcomed their first child, Ava, and their second, Zoe, arrived in March 2018.
The couple also had a dog named Louis.
Together, Nikki and Jamie quickly built up their social media presence, even starting a YouTube channel where fans could follow their journey. The channel exploded, racking up millions of followers.
âWe literally fell into it. It was never a planned thing,â Jamie told Daily Mail Australia back in 2018.
Their big breakthrough came when Jamie proposed to Nikki â in a way that would go viral.
Proposing video going viral
âI wanted to propose to Nikki⊠and she used to watch all of those amazing proposal videos onlineâthe ones that go viral,â Jamie shared.
âSo I knew I needed to do something epic. I created a video that played in Federation Square, and Nikki sat in front of it to watch. My friend filmed it, and we uploaded it to YouTube to share with the family.â
What was supposed to be a private moment for family and friends quickly blew up, amassing 4.6 million likes.
âIt went crazy. And then people in the comments wanted to know who we areâso vlogging came out of that,â Jamie said.
Their wedding video did even better, with eight million likes. But for Nikki and Jamie, it was never about the views.
âPeople assume vloggers are sharing everything, but we keep a lot of our life to ourselves. Weâre just having fun, and itâll be great to look back in 10-20 years and see what we were doing,â he said.
For the Australian family, life became a series of likes, followers, fans, and, ultimately, a full-time job. Avaâs and Zoeâs life were carefully chronicled, every milestone captured in a never-ending stream of digital snapshots.
She never got bullied for her skin
The contrast to her mother Nikkiâs childhood couldnât be more striking. While Avaâs life is laid bare on social media, Nikki had no baby pictures to speak of.
Her past, especially her early years, was a quiet, hidden world.
Nikki was born in Khartoum, Sudan, and moved with her family to Victoria, Australia, in 1994 when she was just four years old.
Growing up in the suburbs of Melbourne, in the modest neighborhood of Moorabbin, Nikkiâs South Sudanese roots shaped her upbringing in ways that would become part of her identity forever.
âGrowing up, I never really realized I was different from everyone else,â Nikki told Buzzfeed. âI never really got bullied for my skin. Itâs funny because the only time I was made to feel different was from my own people, because Iâm darker than my mum.â
Her family valued privacy above all else, and life was centered on hard workâa lesson instilled by her father, who, after failing his veterinary science exam by just a fraction each time, took the test ten times in an attempt to pass.
Her parents had clear expectations for her: do well in school, pursue something stable, perhaps medicine or law, and build a secure, traditional career. But Nikki had different plans. Instead of following the conventional path her parents envisioned, Nikki chose to become a model and a YouTuber.
The decision didnât come without its complications. Her familyâs reaction was predictable â resistance, discomfort, and a reluctance to be involved in her new career. When Nikki first began vlogging, they avoided the camera at all costs.
One day, Nikkiâs father, who had always preferred a life away from the public eye, had an experience that would highlight the difference between the private life he knew and the public world Nikki was entering. While riding the train, he was approached by a group of her subscribers.
âOh my gosh, youâre Nikkiâs dad!â they exclaimed, their recognition taking him by surprise.
âDad was horrified,â Nikki recalled, laughing at the memory. âItâs hilarious now, but at the time, he just couldnât believe people knew who he was from our videos.â
As mentioned, when Nikki was growing up, no one paid much attention to her skin color. But that changed once she became well-known.
Her skin color and their interracial relationship became frequent topics of discussion, and she began facing criticism in the comment sections. And Jamieâs role as Avaâs father has often been met with judgment and misunderstanding.
On one occasion, a doctor asked Jamie how he knew Ava, assuming they werenât related. Jamie described the encounter as more âconfrontingâ than âracist,â but it was a moment that highlighted the misconceptions they faced.
Nikkiâs skin color has also become a frequent topic in the comments on her beauty channel side-project.
While she appears on both her family and beauty channels, the reaction from the audiences couldnât be more different. On the family channel, where their life is showcased, diversity is celebrated. One comment reads, âYou guys bought [sic] a smile to my day!â But Nikki points out that âall the trolls hide in the beauty section,â where the comments are often filled with negativity and harsh criticism.
Why did Jamie and Nikki divorce
For Nikki and Jamie, the challenge was always about finding the right balance between sharing their family and marriage moments with their followers, and preserving some semblance of privacy.
But by 2023, keeping things private became nearly impossible, and Jamie publicly announced that he and Nikki had separated.
According to Page Six, the couple actually parted ways in 2019, but their divorce wasnât finalized until four years later. Their separation was a far cry from the loving images and the tight-knit family dynamic they once shared.
In a revealing YouTube video posted by Jamie, he broke his silence about the end of his six-year marriage to Nikki Thot. He spoke candidly about the âabuse,â âviolence,â and infidelity that, according to him, occurred during their time together.
âIâve been quietly struggling for a really, really long time, and Iâve just been in fear, living in fear, living in survival mode, pretty much on autopilot for a really long time just trying to maintain my place as a father in Ava and Zoeâs lives,â the father of two shared. He went on to reveal that since the split, he has been diagnosed with post-traumatic stress disorder, situational depression, and severe social anxiety.
âThe reason Nikki and I broke up was I discovered she had been unfaithful,â he claimed. âSheâd been going behind my back with her ex-boyfriend, and Iâd been warned about him being an issue before. ⊠The first year of our marriage, I discovered that sheâd been secretly keeping in contact with him.â
In response to the allegations, Thot took to her Instagram Story, expressing that she was âextremely disappointedâ in her ex-husband, claiming he was attempting to âslanderâ her character.
She explained that she had hoped to keep the matter private for the sake of their daughters but now felt the need to address the accusations and share her side of the story.
âI have no contact with him since he posted that video, nor have I threatened legal action. Jamie removed the video simply because he saw that people wasnât buying this story. He blamed me for absolutely everything. Nothing I could do was right and I was at fault for anything that went wrong in his life,â Nikki wrote.
Today, the couple lives apart, but Jamie continues to work as an influencer. He describes himself as a YouTuber, adventurer, car lover, and, above all, a single parent. âIâm just trying to be the best dad I can be,â he says.
Today, the coupleâs daughters are 6 and 8 years old, and itâs clear they are two adorable little ones!
Despite the challenges and ups and downs theyâve faced, Jamie and Nikkiâs journey shows resilience and growth. Through it all, their love for their daughters remains unwavering, and they continue to build their lives, each finding their own path.
We wish them all the best as they move forward, embracing new chapters and creating happy, lasting memories with their family. Hereâs to brighter days ahead!